#anyone hoping for a character arc just be aware that the emotionally constipated sibling does take like twenty seven seasons
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misspermitted · 5 days ago
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For personal reasons and because I loathe generalisations I hate the analysis of Vi and Jinx as the dynamic of “classic older sister takes on too much weight and younger sister is immature.”
However, Vi and Jinx are, in my opinion, a scrumptious example of the trauma bonded sibling dynamic: dangerously self-aware sibling versus emotionally constipated sibling.
What is this dynamic you ask? Well:
Dangerously self-aware sibling
Deals with their trauma by trying to fix the world, because they see their trauma everywhere and are so mad watching others turn into them. They desperately want to stop the cycle but feel powerless to do so because they can never be the "correct" person to change the world. They're already ruined! So they put other “better” people that could change the world on an unmeetable pedestal. They can’t actually have close connections because they distance everyone from them in this way. The people they meet inevitably fall from the pedestal - leading to a constant sense of betrayal and isolation and growing disdain towards people in general.
Meanwhile emotionally constipated sibling
Deals with their trauma by trying to fix people, because they are physically incapable of not blaming themselves for the trauma, so believe they can protect the people they care about from the same fate by fixing the people to not be as inherently flawed as themselves. The obsession with fixing people leads to single minded focus and devotion to their projects as they repeatedly debase themselves for them. But because of the unequal power dynamic now they’re being abused by the object of their devotion? Growing frustration, why isn’t the person being fixed properly? They bathe in self loathing. It must be their fault for not being a good enough sister/friend/lover. Repeat ad infinitum.
#probably biased but I found arcane very accurate too in that the dangerously self aware sibling (jinx) ends up realising her issues first#and trying to change them but still falling into the same patterns of self sacrifice#and suicidal tendencies because she believes she is ruining the new world by being tainted#despite also realising that the thought pattern that she is not a hero and tainted is incorrect#self aware self sabotage to the extreme#whereas vi just has absolutely no self insight and is still making the exact same mistakes that got her into the situation in the first#place and blames the mistakes on the people she chose to devote herself to rather than any unhealthy behaviour#because how goddamn accurate#anyone hoping for a character arc just be aware that the emotionally constipated sibling does take like twenty seven seasons#to even slightly change their behaviour#whereas the self aware one will just stop the car before driving off the cliff for the fiftieth time#rethink her life#then get triggered and drive off the cliff again#mental health#childhood trauma#siblings#sibling dynamics#tw family trauma#arcane#jinx arcane#vi and jinx#jinx#vi arcane#vi and powder#powder#arcane meta#vi and jinx meta#whoever was writing arcane knew what the hell they were writing it is so goddamn accurate to childhood trauma#(and what they were writing sure wasn’t the stupid older sibling vibes ✨ oversimplification trope that just enables the toxic relationship#between traumatised older siblings where they believe they’re taken advantage of by the selfish younger sibling)
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